Self-Centered: Meet the Obstacle Threatening your Marriage

"Self-centeredness, or selfishness in all its forms as "a way of life" in the marriage relationship (as it is in so many marriages today), will cause that relationship to fail... even if the marriage continues to survive." from Chapter 9 The Amazing Process, The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage

The truth is, being self-centered gets you nowhere in a marriage. The hope of us all is to be truly, happily married, sitting in matching rocking chairs, holding hands when we are in our golden years. There are a few secrets; a few lost keys that can help you get there. One of those keys has to do with selfishness. Your marriage may survive regardless of selfish attitudes, but your relationship will be less than "all it can be"... and that is a fact. A dream marriage is made of two individuals in a "dream relationship." Giving of yourself. The sharing of your life, (in all the daily interactions) with your loved one. Oneness. The mystery of two becoming one. That is what a dream relationship looks like.

Often these days couples 'intend' to live out the dream marriage described above... however, knowing the cold, hard facts of divorce, they often sadly believe that... 

"...if it does not (or if I do not get out of it what I need), I can simply move on and try to find it in the next relationship." Chapter 14, The Wives part... A Very Important Dynamic!, The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage

Far too many marriages in America are ending prematurely these days if they are based on this logic. Couples "allow their relationships" to fail due to selfishness (i.e. not getting out of it what they wanted) and in turn, end their marriage. In either scenario, a failed relationship or marriage often begins with selfishness. What does the opposite look like you think? Do you assume, as sadly so many do, that if you give of yourself, it's like 'giving' in to your spouse? Or letting them win? Perhaps, in a sense, it is. But just like an apple tree dies when it falls from the tree, and then it's seeds sprout and bring forth life... so it will be in the marriage where giving of one's self is the "understood goal". Life begins to spring forth and grow...

Therefore, we invite you to discover The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage. It's "the revolutionary book" on marriage of our age- its concise and to the point. No fluff, just 3 key principles which, when absorbed... with open hearts and willing minds, will transform your marriage today. If you are someone feeling like your marriage is already over, it's never to late. If you have drifted apart, allowed the busyness of life to take over or perhaps let selfishness overtake your marriage, don't wait another moment and click here to learn more.  

With over 37 years of a thriving marriage behind them, the authors have plainly and beautifully described the keys to their success within the pages of this life-changing book. 

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Beauty is in the Eye or the Beholder, or is it?

Beauty is subjective; meaning, beauty isn't a fact. However, through media, social interactions and what we see in magazines, we have almost been 'programmed' to all see beauty similarly. This can happen with love. The way we 'view' or 'see' love, through how it is portrayed in books, movies and real life is what many of us begin to define love as.

"I believe that... how many understand "love" today in society, is an example of how large groups of people can come to "misunderstand" very important things in our lives." Chapter 1, The Beginning: What is Love?, The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage

One can imagine how having an 'incorrect' view on love can reek havoc on marriages in America... because we see it happening today. With over half of all marriages ending in divorce, it's safe to say that, "the way the majority of us view love" is incorrect. Something needs to change our 'view' of love in order to have an accurate 'paradigm' (how we as individuals see, experience, or understand the world we live in). 

"How we "see" or "view" these subjective things, determines how we "act and/or "react," to the many and varied things that "happen" in our lives. Chapter 1, The Beginning: What is Love?, The 3 Lost Keys... to your Amazing Dream Marriage.

Exactly. Let's throw the word 'love' in the above quote. Read it through. How we see or view love determines how we act or react to the many and varied things that happen in our lives. Especially relative to the marriage relationship. And if we view love the way the world does, as an emotion rather than a choice for example, then we will react to our spouse being grumpy as them not loving us anymore, get angry back at them, etc, etc. Having an incorrect view of love, and what it really is, can be a dangerous way to enter a marriage; and also makes it nearly impossible to stay in one for the long haul. Hence why so many call it quits these days. 

In the revolutionary new book, The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage, "love" and what it means in the marriage relationship is described in depth - in an easy to read, easy to comprehend way to begin using in your everyday life. There are three key principles nearly lost to this generation, which when accepted with an open and willing heart, will literally transform your marriage. Put your marriage before anything else this Christmas season and buy the book that many call 'life-changing' and the book that helped saved their marriage. Click HERE to purchase it TODAY.

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Farmers: The Secret Only They Know About Marriage

Every farmer knows the secret to a great harvest. The seed must first die. Then, and only then... it brings forth abundant and multiple fruit.

"The grain must first be harvested, and then die,and then and only then, can it be planted, watered and finally bring forth more grain..." Chapter 9, The Amazing Process, The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage

This process of planting a harvest can be likened to a marriage relationship. In our culture, the idea that 'it's all about you' or selfishness, or 'getting what you want', often becomes the theme of the marriage.  But farmers know a secret about farming, and marriage, that blows this idea right out of the water. 

"...because the natural process of dying, in order to bring forth abundant fruit... is real. And it is amazing." Chapter 9, The Amazing Process, The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage

Farmers know that giving... equals growth. Dying equals fruit. It's a beautiful and wonderful thing to witness during Fall. The leaves turning color and falling to the ground, look like they are giving up. But what we soon forget and fail to often see, is that in dying, the tree can have life again. And many more multiples of it in fact. The following Spring and for a hundred more Springs, the tree which was first a sapling, will soon be a Sycamore with many branches and leaves so thick that even the sun's rays can not break through. That's what a dream marriage can look like. A growing, thriving, beautiful tree, big and strong, for year after year after year. Farmers all know this secret, and now... you can too.

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Sharing of Emotions: Not Just for Women

Believe it or not, most men in a committed relationship desire to have times of sharing their feelings with their significant other.  They want to feel close to you emotionally and not only sexually. It's just that getting there, that can be more difficult for men. 

'While women generally can go from... "Hi honey, how was work today?" ... to, "Can we share our hearts and innermost emotions with each other and hold each other, and love each other and really connect babe?", in a few moments... men often need some time." The Wives part... A Very Important Dynamic! The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage

We've all had the 'How was your day, honey' conversation somehow turn into an argument. Women, often want to delve into the emotional highs and lows of their day and have their man sit and really listen, nod his head, furrow his brow at just the right moments while we pour out our hearts. Men, (because of stress, exhaustion or a number of other factors) often want some time to unwind, and forget about the stressful things for a while and simply enjoy being home. It's no secret that women have a much greater need to "connect", especially with that one who they love. And it's not that men don't want to share their hearts and lives, but they just sometimes need some help getting there.

Men are solvers. They can not help but hear a problem and want to fix it. Women like to vent and want that closeness with their man. Often, men get in trouble and sound insensitive when they simply try to fix their wives' 'problems' when she just wanted his understanding. It's not that men are incapable of intimate sharing and having times of emotional closeness which women so desire. As we said, they just need a helping hand. 

"Ladies... your job is to find out what... "softens him up." from Chapter 14 of The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage

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Women are uniquely equipped for this. That is, finding a way to make it easy for him to open up and share. Maybe you have to wait for him to finish dinner or put the kids to bed before opening up and attempting that "connection." But if you want to help your man reach deeper and deeper depths of emotional oneness with you, he needs your unique assistance. In our book, The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage, we share three principles which can not only help with the issue of emotional intimacy, but will also help you and your spouse be on your way to a marriage relationship you've always dreamed about.

Don't wait another day! Learn the three keys which have all but been lost to our generation. Every day these life-changing key principles are helping men and women all across the country work towards the marriage relationship of their dreams! 

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Newly Engaged: Want to Make a Few Minutes Last a Lifetime?

Struggling through a marriage and eventually getting a divorce is sadly the case for many marriages today in America. The debris afterwards are children left to wonder what happened and two broken hearts. Still, against all odds, many children of divorce grow up hoping for a dream marriage themselves and even after a few failed marriages, their parents still hope for a marriage relationship which will fulfill them and make them happy.

"Virtually every couple these days starts out together intending to live that dream marriage relationship they so fervently hope for when they are young." The Statistical Facts Today The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Forever Dream Marriage

A common headline after a few years of marriage reads: "Recently married couple infatuated with each other unexpectedly call it quits when their romantic feelings and emotional euphoria wear off". The truth is, those 'feelings' of romance will ebb and flow like the ocean. Even those convinced their 'love' would last forever, learn that emotions are difficult to sustain. True love, however, is sustainable and can not, or rather should not be confused with infatuation, which is what so many people call 'love' these days.

If you are getting married, soon to be engaged or perhaps in a 'struggling' marriage, then we encourage you to read our short, to the point, work on 3 lost key principles to understanding, and eventually apprehending, your own amazing dream marriage. 

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The authors, sharing over 37 years of marriage, have plainly and beautifully revealed the keys to their success within the pages of this incredible and life-changing book. It's the book of our age which will revolutionize marriages all across the country. If you and your fiance, or spouse, have open hearts and truly want to have a marriage that lasts a lifetime, then do not wait another day and click here to learn how. 

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There is More... to Marriage

For those of you who have children, you know seeing their faces for the first time was one of the most amazing moments ever... and then watching that child grow up and bonding with them is indescribable. Literally. If you try to describe what this feels like to another person who has yet to have children, it is extremely difficult for them to imagine. First off, they get stuck for a while, a long while, on what would my kid even look like? 

The same goes for an amazing dream marriage that we all so strongly desire. Until we have discovered the 'mystery' of two becoming one, can we fully understand it? Just like our friend who has yet to experience children can not fully understand what having them is like, is understanding and apprehending a dream marriage unattainable?  

Having said that however, does not mean you cannot understand how to get there and what it takes to understand it and therefore to apprehend it for yourself. Chapter 5, Only 'True' Love Endures The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage. 

There can be so much more to your marriage. In our book, The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage, we have three life-changing principles spelled out in easy to understand language, which you can apply to your marriage today. 

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What Happens When We Try to Fix our Marriage Without The Right Tools

Jane- The 'Fixer'

Jane was frustrated. John was so dense. Their marriage was falling apart. She was once so infatuated with him. Now, she saw him clearly and wasn't sure if she wanted to remain married. She never complained about anything, yet he never asked how she was. She was not okay. Searching the internet, she found the information overwhelming for how to improve their marriage. Her heart yearned for more, but would that ever happen? She began delving into chores around the house hoping he would notice and he didn't...

John- 'The Average Joe..'

John was put off. His wife suddenly was not the carefree woman he married. She used to make his heart race and now she was constantly trying to outdo him. Like their marriage was some sort of competition she could win. She never asked him to help her, but would angrily complete the dishes every night. One thing was for sure, she was angry all the time. John couldn't figure out why. He wanted to help her, but clueless as to how, John just went about his business.

Jane and John are a tragic, yet common story of what has become the norm in our society. Two people, barely surviving, in a marriage relationship. Jane, like many women want to 'fix' their marriage while men, like John, can be emotionally clueless to their wives' needs.

There is HOPE! The right tools, (defined as "understandings") combined with willing and open hearts, can bring about an amazing, dream marriage relationship. 

Love's true definition, along with 3 key principles to help you begin to understand the way a marriage can thrive, are revealed in The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage. These keys are all but lost, but now in this life-changing, revolutionary new book of our age you can learn about, and apply these simple, but profound, principles to your marriage today. 

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