What are the Keys to a Dream Marriage?

Often in life we daydream about how our lives could be better. In these times of deep thought, we may turn on the radio for an inspirational song or open the newest enlightening book for insight. Perhaps your thing is to sit in the quiet with a cup of coffee, or a bowl or ice cream, and daydream about what you could be doing differently in life, or how you might change the "direction" of your life. One of the most common topics of advice books, blogs and websites is: (you guessed it) the marriage relationship. Since the 1930's couples have sought out marriage counseling and advice and it has only grown with the skyrocketing number of separations and divorces over the decades; and especially "our" decade.

During one such time of a man's quest to find what might be "missing"from his marriage relationship... he had an epiphany.

"I suddenly knew I was seeing something that was hugely important for me to see; something hugely important for our lives together." Chapter 7 The Day 'It' Happened , The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage

This epiphany was life changing for him. Although when it comes to marriage advice, there is a plethora of information to delve into; we believe the true keys to a great and enduring marriage, and they are quite simple...  have been lost to many (maybe most) over the years. In this concise and 'life-changing' book, The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage, the author reveals the three keys in which he has learned have been absolutely critical in the success of his own dream marriage of over 37 years. 

Daydreaming and true life evaluation is great for our souls. It's a time to inwardly assess what is perhaps missing in our lives or how we can be better, do better. If you find yourself "wondering", please get The 3 Lost Keys today! Listen to what one of our readers said:

"Such a simple but deeply life changing revelation. Worded in easy to understand language... I will place this book in an accessible position in my home."  Holly, April 11th, 2015 

Why Does it Matter: Gender Differences

We live in the age of equality. Everyone should be treated the same. Society would have us believe there is not a difference between boys and girls or men and women. However, we are not the same, are we?

'Or maybe closer to the truth is that they want to believe it so that they can make a more powerful argument about women having equal rights with men...' Chapter 11, 'The Way We Are: Men & Women, The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage

 But the truth is: men and women are just put together differently. Regarding the marriage relationship (between a man and woman mind you) there are significant differences; and aren't we glad that there are? Sure, there can be communication breakdowns and monthly emotional mood swings, but there is beauty in two people choosing to love each other and accept each other unconditionally. In spite of their 'differences'.

In The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage, the author clearly states what makes men and women different. He delves into what men and women desire, and the secret which perfectly aligns these to create a most amazing marriage union. In fact, these 'differences' between men and women are essential to the marriage relationship.

'Whether you call it evolution, the way God made us, or instincts given by nature, it is nevertheless true.' Chapter 11, 'The Way We Are', The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage.

It doesn't matter what you believe, but it is plain to see if you observe a marriage for any length of time, that men and women are just different. They were created this way. In this concise work, the puzzle pieces are clearly put together and a crystal clear picture is painted. The path to an amazing dream marriage can be yours.

Get The 3 Lost Keys today and begin to learn about, and put into practice, the 3 key principles this revolutionary book spells out in a short, easy read. Men who do not even like to read praise this concise book and it's simple principles. 

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You can lead a horse to water...

A magic wand would solve everything, Jane thought as she sat crying about her most recent spat with John, her husband of nearly 15 years. She just wanted him to read the book. If she could just get him to, no make him, understand how a marriage is supposed to work, they wouldn't have just had this fight, again. If he would just read the book, then he would understand, Jane thought again. 

How do I help my husband/boyfriend to understand these principles and encourage him to see what our lives could be like and ultimately want them? Chapter 17, 'You can lead a horse to water...' The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage.

It all started innocently enough when Jane asked John about the marriage book she wanted him to read... the third time that week.

John sighed and said, "I know, Jane. You've asked me this numerous times. But remember, I am busy. I work hard all day and when I get in bed, all I want to do is sleep." 

Jane replied, "I work hard all day too and this marriage, our marriage, should be important to you too. I just want you to read it. Is that too much to ask?"

John was getting more frustrated now. "Yes, yes it is."

This really ruffled Jane's feathers. "Oh really? But looking on your phone for 30 minutes before bed isn't too hard, is it? You know, you could be reading during that time instead."

John shook his head. "You know what Jane, I'm not going to read the book. EVER."

'A goal is something you will do certain things for or take certain actions to try to accomplish.' Chapter 13, 'Goals and Hopes', The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage.

Goals are good for us to have for ourselves. However, as you can tell from Jane and John's conversation, pushing your spouse towards a goal you have for them, will only push them the opposite direction. You can lead a horse to water... but you can not make them drink.

In the book, The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage, Jane learned three principles that can transform a marriage. She strongly desired her husband to read it and learn them as well. However, in the same book, Chapter 17 discusses how a wife can better lead her horse (husband) to water. 

A magic wand would be nice. However, it is not realistic. Let the 3 principles revealed in this revolutionary new book transform your soon-to-be or current marriage TODAY. 

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The Way You View Love and How It Affects Your Marriage

"... how you 'see' and 'understand' LOVE, and the marriage relationship, will dictate how you 'act and react' (what path you will choose at the many and varied decision points), in your own marriage relationship." Chapter 1 'The Beginning: What is Love?' The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Very Own Amazing Dream Marriage

How we view love is dependent on our own unique past experiences and what we were, or were not, taught. Our expectations for marriage are born out of these experiences.

It's important to note in a marriage you have two people with different, aka subjective, views on love. What each of you saw demonstrated as love by your own parents was different and it affected how you view love. What you each saw on television over the years was different and affected you differently, again making your view of what love in a marriage is, very, you guessed it, 'different'.

Subjective: based on or influenced by personal feelings, tastes, or opinions.

So how do you get on the same page when it comes to viewing love? Well, as intelligent human beings, we can be taught how to view something. For example, we are taught to follow the speed limit. We also have our own 'subjective view' on what we think the speed limit should be on the same road. Much like the speed limit, we have our own beliefs of what marriage should look like. Now, if we follow our own speed limit on the road, there may be consequences. Tickets, accidents, etc. The same is true for following our own path regarding what we expect love in a marriage to be, like when we are not on the same page. These are more personally catastrophic; and may even eventually lead to divorce and heartbreak.

There are 3 key principles everyone can learn about in the marriage relationship which can put you and your spouse on the same page. Although we can be taught the reason for speed limits and to obey them to 'get on the same page' as the law (and everyone else on the road for that matter), this doesn't mean we believe it. The same follows for love in a marriage; you can be taught or shown what love should be in a marriage so as to be on the same page as your spouse, but you may still hold on to your own 'subjective view' of what you 'think' it should be. To move forward, you must drop these false views of love and accept the truth and power the 3 Key Principles this book unveils.

Then, and only then, can you begin to learn and apply the 3 lost principles to your own Amazing Dream Marriage. 

But what version of 'love' in the marriage relationship should you agree upon? In our book, The 3 Lost Keys... To Your Amazing Dream Marriage, Chapter One titled 'What is LOVE?' covers the topic thoroughly. The short, concise book is revolutionary in today's world of so many separations and divorces. With just 3 Key Principles, every marriage in America and throughout the world can be transformed. 

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