The Way You View Love and How It Affects Your Marriage

"... how you 'see' and 'understand' LOVE, and the marriage relationship, will dictate how you 'act and react' (what path you will choose at the many and varied decision points), in your own marriage relationship." Chapter 1 'The Beginning: What is Love?' The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Very Own Amazing Dream Marriage

How we view love is dependent on our own unique past experiences and what we were, or were not, taught. Our expectations for marriage are born out of these experiences.

It's important to note in a marriage you have two people with different, aka subjective, views on love. What each of you saw demonstrated as love by your own parents was different and it affected how you view love. What you each saw on television over the years was different and affected you differently, again making your view of what love in a marriage is, very, you guessed it, 'different'.

Subjective: based on or influenced by personal feelings, tastes, or opinions.

So how do you get on the same page when it comes to viewing love? Well, as intelligent human beings, we can be taught how to view something. For example, we are taught to follow the speed limit. We also have our own 'subjective view' on what we think the speed limit should be on the same road. Much like the speed limit, we have our own beliefs of what marriage should look like. Now, if we follow our own speed limit on the road, there may be consequences. Tickets, accidents, etc. The same is true for following our own path regarding what we expect love in a marriage to be, like when we are not on the same page. These are more personally catastrophic; and may even eventually lead to divorce and heartbreak.

There are 3 key principles everyone can learn about in the marriage relationship which can put you and your spouse on the same page. Although we can be taught the reason for speed limits and to obey them to 'get on the same page' as the law (and everyone else on the road for that matter), this doesn't mean we believe it. The same follows for love in a marriage; you can be taught or shown what love should be in a marriage so as to be on the same page as your spouse, but you may still hold on to your own 'subjective view' of what you 'think' it should be. To move forward, you must drop these false views of love and accept the truth and power the 3 Key Principles this book unveils.

Then, and only then, can you begin to learn and apply the 3 lost principles to your own Amazing Dream Marriage. 

But what version of 'love' in the marriage relationship should you agree upon? In our book, The 3 Lost Keys... To Your Amazing Dream Marriage, Chapter One titled 'What is LOVE?' covers the topic thoroughly. The short, concise book is revolutionary in today's world of so many separations and divorces. With just 3 Key Principles, every marriage in America and throughout the world can be transformed. 

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