There is More... to Marriage

For those of you who have children, you know seeing their faces for the first time was one of the most amazing moments ever... and then watching that child grow up and bonding with them is indescribable. Literally. If you try to describe what this feels like to another person who has yet to have children, it is extremely difficult for them to imagine. First off, they get stuck for a while, a long while, on what would my kid even look like? 

The same goes for an amazing dream marriage that we all so strongly desire. Until we have discovered the 'mystery' of two becoming one, can we fully understand it? Just like our friend who has yet to experience children can not fully understand what having them is like, is understanding and apprehending a dream marriage unattainable?  

Having said that however, does not mean you cannot understand how to get there and what it takes to understand it and therefore to apprehend it for yourself. Chapter 5, Only 'True' Love Endures The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage. 

There can be so much more to your marriage. In our book, The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage, we have three life-changing principles spelled out in easy to understand language, which you can apply to your marriage today. 

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What Happens When We Try to Fix our Marriage Without The Right Tools

Jane- The 'Fixer'

Jane was frustrated. John was so dense. Their marriage was falling apart. She was once so infatuated with him. Now, she saw him clearly and wasn't sure if she wanted to remain married. She never complained about anything, yet he never asked how she was. She was not okay. Searching the internet, she found the information overwhelming for how to improve their marriage. Her heart yearned for more, but would that ever happen? She began delving into chores around the house hoping he would notice and he didn't...

John- 'The Average Joe..'

John was put off. His wife suddenly was not the carefree woman he married. She used to make his heart race and now she was constantly trying to outdo him. Like their marriage was some sort of competition she could win. She never asked him to help her, but would angrily complete the dishes every night. One thing was for sure, she was angry all the time. John couldn't figure out why. He wanted to help her, but clueless as to how, John just went about his business.

Jane and John are a tragic, yet common story of what has become the norm in our society. Two people, barely surviving, in a marriage relationship. Jane, like many women want to 'fix' their marriage while men, like John, can be emotionally clueless to their wives' needs.

There is HOPE! The right tools, (defined as "understandings") combined with willing and open hearts, can bring about an amazing, dream marriage relationship. 

Love's true definition, along with 3 key principles to help you begin to understand the way a marriage can thrive, are revealed in The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage. These keys are all but lost, but now in this life-changing, revolutionary new book of our age you can learn about, and apply these simple, but profound, principles to your marriage today. 

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The Blindfold of Infatuation: Its Time to Take it Off

The feeling of love is amazing, isn't it? The feeling when your heart leaps each time you see that person who makes you feel like you're walking on air... the joy you feel when they say your name or that they love you... 

"To become head over heels for someone to the point of losing rational judgement; to become 'titillated', enraptured or starry eyed about them, and to become romantically and intimately drawn to them and to develop a strong desire for them." Chapter 4 Infatuation, The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage.

That's how we describe love on television, in movies, books and even to each other anyways. However, we are doing ourselves and each other a terrible injustice. These adjectives and descriptions laid out above define INFATUATION, not love. 

Take the blindfold of infatuation off and see it for what it really is: an inconsistent, (albeit very fun) emotion. One which comes and goes, like waves in the ocean. It can be there one minute... and gone the next. If love were infatuation, can you imagine what marriages would look like? We would have a lot of divorces...  Okay, so I am being sarcastic. THIS is why we have so many divorces as so many people associate these romantic feelings of ecstasy as being love. Therefore, when they come and ... then ... go, they think they don't 'love' their spouse any longer. They simply never had a 'true' understanding of love, so maybe they're not really to blame. Maybe it's a deeper, SOCIETY WIDE issue today.

In The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage there is a key principle discussed in chapter 4 titled Infatuation... It can be good... and it can be bad... that is, if it is not understood for what it really is. 

Love is described and explained in a way which finally makes sense. As long as you desire (and are open to) maybe seeing it in a way you haven't before. We all have been, at one time or another, blindfolded by infatuation and lead willingly (as infatuation feels so good) to believe that it is love. Infatuation is simply not love. 

Take for example this couple. Meeting at the young age of 17 they instantly are drawn to one another. Everyone can see it. Others are in fact envious of the way they are when with one another. Over time they feel that they have 'fallen in love'. So... they get married. However, neither of them truly understands what love is supposed to be... in the marriage relationship. Yes, they are feeling all the romantic ecstasy and emotional highs that are a part of infatuation... but they don't understand yet the deeper... more important part of an enduring marriage relationship. So, when things in life happen... they feel that maybe they are falling "out of love" I mean, if you can fall into love... you can fall out of love... right? Or can you...?

'Infatuation can occur, on its own, without making a decision to extend true 'love'. Chapter 4 Infatuation The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage

Let's look at another couple. They meet a little later in life, say around 22. Although he was instantly drawn to her, she was not drawn to him, until later. Until she sat down and talked with him about her life, her disappointments. He listened and over the course of time they too 'fell in love'. Meaning, they were infatuated with one another (again, a very good thing if understood for what it is). When push came to shove, he was always willing to put her first. He loved seeing her happy, even if it meant giving up something of his own life. He never questioned her, but instead trusted and respected her. She in turn, adored him. They were well on their way to beginning to understand what LOVE in the marriage relationship should be.

"Only 'True' Love Endures."

Now, don't worry if you had the blindfold on. We all have at one time or another. That feeling when someone is infatuated with you (and you with them) is amazing. However, it comes and it goes, and has nothing to do with true, selfless love. Be bold and take the blindfold off. Discover what true love for another really is, be ready to delve into your soul and learn what it really means to love another, as a married couple should. 

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Not Riches, Not Health, Not Fame, Not Power.. Can Compare to This!

They all fall miserably short when compared to living your life with your soul mate in a marriage relationship that is satisfying, fulfilling and exciting every new day of your life. Chapter 5, Only 'True' Love Endures, The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage

You've heard, 'it takes one to know one'. The above sentence speaks truth from one who knows what this is like. The author of The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage, speaks of a time in his life wherein, (by all outwards accounts) he had it all. The job, the beautiful wife, the kids and the list goes on. Yet, when he began to learn about the three keys to an amazing marriage, well, the truth and power encompassed in this simple sentence... became real to him.

All the riches in the world still can't quench our thirst for the one thing we all truly desire: A fulfilling, satisfying, exciting life with our soul mate. Not health, not fame or power will complete this precious place in our soul. 

Is your marriage relationship an example of this... or do you hope it can be some day? If you said yes to the latter, the quote taken above is from a revolutionary, life-changing (yet, concise and easy to read) book where three key principles every married couple needs to know are revealed for the very first time. 

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