The Way You View Love and How It Affects Your Marriage

"... how you 'see' and 'understand' LOVE, and the marriage relationship, will dictate how you 'act and react' (what path you will choose at the many and varied decision points), in your own marriage relationship." Chapter 1 'The Beginning: What is Love?' The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Very Own Amazing Dream Marriage

How we view love is dependent on our own unique past experiences and what we were, or were not, taught. Our expectations for marriage are born out of these experiences.

It's important to note in a marriage you have two people with different, aka subjective, views on love. What each of you saw demonstrated as love by your own parents was different and it affected how you view love. What you each saw on television over the years was different and affected you differently, again making your view of what love in a marriage is, very, you guessed it, 'different'.

Subjective: based on or influenced by personal feelings, tastes, or opinions.

So how do you get on the same page when it comes to viewing love? Well, as intelligent human beings, we can be taught how to view something. For example, we are taught to follow the speed limit. We also have our own 'subjective view' on what we think the speed limit should be on the same road. Much like the speed limit, we have our own beliefs of what marriage should look like. Now, if we follow our own speed limit on the road, there may be consequences. Tickets, accidents, etc. The same is true for following our own path regarding what we expect love in a marriage to be, like when we are not on the same page. These are more personally catastrophic; and may even eventually lead to divorce and heartbreak.

There are 3 key principles everyone can learn about in the marriage relationship which can put you and your spouse on the same page. Although we can be taught the reason for speed limits and to obey them to 'get on the same page' as the law (and everyone else on the road for that matter), this doesn't mean we believe it. The same follows for love in a marriage; you can be taught or shown what love should be in a marriage so as to be on the same page as your spouse, but you may still hold on to your own 'subjective view' of what you 'think' it should be. To move forward, you must drop these false views of love and accept the truth and power the 3 Key Principles this book unveils.

Then, and only then, can you begin to learn and apply the 3 lost principles to your own Amazing Dream Marriage. 

But what version of 'love' in the marriage relationship should you agree upon? In our book, The 3 Lost Keys... To Your Amazing Dream Marriage, Chapter One titled 'What is LOVE?' covers the topic thoroughly. The short, concise book is revolutionary in today's world of so many separations and divorces. With just 3 Key Principles, every marriage in America and throughout the world can be transformed. 

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Marriage Advice: Who do you turn to for Marriage Answers?

When it comes to marriage advice, we sometimes go to the wrong people. We talk to our friends, family members, even professional marriage counselors, whose own marriages have been less than successful. Why is this?

ONLY EXPERIENCE

We often go to those with mediocre or unsuccessful marriages because we simply do not know anyone who has it all figured out.

You must ask yourself, what type of marriage do I want? If it's one in which you are growing closer to your spouse daily and being happier than you can even comprehend, then seek out and find those with EXPERIENCE in a thriving marriage. Do you know any?

Sure we have all "seen" those couples who have that twinkle in their eye and swing each other around on the dance floor like no one is watching. However, many of us don't actually know very many couples like this. 

In The 3 Lost Keys... To Your Amazing Dream Marriage, the authors openly share the all important (but these days not so obvious to many) principles which are the reason for their enduring martial success.

You can have that thriving marriage you've dreamed of... and the answers are found in this short and powerful work. 

Not only is the goal of Dream Marriages to revolutionize Your Marriage, but also to give you the tools for you to set an example in your family for many years to come. With the 3 Lost Keys firmly in your hands, your marriage, your kids' marriages and even your grand kids' marriages ALL can be marriages which most only dream of.

How can I say that? Because I've seen it. I'm living it. The Authors (who happen to be my in-laws; so as somewhat of an objective outsider, I can say honestly) embrace and live out the key principles in their book. Along with themselves, their five grown children, who are all either married or getting married soon, are enjoying marriage the way it was designed to be after learning about The 3 Lost Key Principles.

There are only 3 KEYS people!! This is easy, life-changing stuff. It's so simple, yet, can not be explained fully here. You need to read The 3 Lost Keys...to Your Amazing Dream Marriage today!! It WILL change your Marriage!

Chanelle Bligh

Men: Feel Like Something is Missing in Your Marriage?

It is not uncommon to hear those words when a couple goes through a divorce, "There was just something missing." Often it's a romantic feeling, a closeness, or what many refer to as 'falling out of love.' But is that really what happened?  Wondering what is missing is a question many men will have or wonder about. So, men, do you feel like something is missing in your marriage?

"...inside my spirit, I began to feel, well, that there was something more to be experienced in our marriage than I was seeing- maybe something more for my wife's sake than for mine." Chapter 7, The Day It Happened, The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage

Something more... is that what you feel like, men? That something is missing, or there is something more to be experienced in marriage? If so, in Chapter 7 titled The Day It Happened, from our book The 3 Lost Keys, you will find the story of a man just like yourself searching for the answer.

In fact, the entire reason this book was written, self-published and available today is because of the answer he discovered. For this reason alone, you should CLICK HERE, download, upload or ship the physical copy to your door today, and get reading. 

The book is very concise and to the point, yet is jammed-packed with wisdom that will literally change your life, your marriage and your heart. You will be amazed at the insights you see. 

Love: One Word, So Many Meanings

"Get understanding of what LOVE truly is."

Do you know what LOVE truly is? Specifically in the marriage relationship? 

"Oh, most of us 'think' we know what love is, but when you get right down to it and you ask someone to define love in a sentence or two, you soon realize that their definition, what they 'thought' it was, is to say the least, confused, complicated or over simplified." Chapter 1, 'The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage'

We say, 'I love my job' or 'I'm in love with my new shoes,' moments before we tell our spouse 'I love you.' Now, do you really love your spouse as much as your shoes or your job? Well, that depends on what you mean, and do you know what you mean?

Love is simply most often, misunderstood. Especially the kind of love that should define the marriage relationship. 

You may mean you love how they look, or how they helped you with the dishes, or do you mean something more? Imagine your spouse's face. Then, ask yourself, what do I mean when I say 'I love you,' to them? If you feel any doubt, any confusion of what you do mean, you are not alone. 

In fact, I've been in your shoes. I can recall telling my soon-to-be spouse before we had our marriage counseling sessions, 'I love you,' and actually wondering at times what that truly meant. I knew I had strong, emotional feelings, but there were certainly times those feelings weren't as strong. Did I love him less at those times? 

Understanding love in the marriage relationship will help lead to a more abundant and fulfilled life. Take my word for it. 

Upon my husband and I reading Chapter 2 titled Understanding Love: The way it was 'intended' to be! in the book The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage, my life was changed. My marriage was able to begin with a truth not everyone gets to know: 

The truth of what Love really is.

But it really is just the BEGINNING. Understanding love in the marriage relationship is going to put your perspective in the perfect position to learn "The 3 Lost Keys... To Your Amazing Dream Marriage." DO NOT put it off another day!! 

READ IT, join the conversation, and we so look forward to hearing your successes!!!

Calling All Wives: Set the Bar High!

"...a tragic result of the beliefs of many in our society today in which the 'marriage covenant' has become nothing much more than something we 'hope' works out."Chapter 14, The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage

Imagine what your world, your marriage, would look like if you not only hoped for the marriage of your dreams, but it exceeded your expectations? 

Let's say you are just getting married. You haven't even spent one day as Mr. and Mrs. Jones... your entire future is a blank slate. You haven't bought that first car, house or time share. You haven't felt that excitement of your first positive pregnancy test or celebrated a job promotion. The expectations of your amazing life and future are at your fingertips. You can literally see the happy days ahead and can not wait to begin living them. 

That's the mindset we WIVES must have! Then... never to forget! 

Let's not only have "hopes" of our marriages 'working out,' but instead...ensure that they thrive! Having that close heart-to-heart connection with your spouse on a day-to-day basis, is not simply a pipe dream! It can be yours... 

In reality, many in society have the attitude matching the first quote. They are one foot in and one foot out. A common thought may be, "Well, if my spouse doesn't do ... or does do... this, or that again... I can just leave." The hope of a dream marriage is quite literally half way out the door as well. 

What's the harm in hoping for a dream marriage? You may get let down? Aren't you already let down by not having real dreams of an "Amazing Marriage Relationship"? What do you have to lose by hoping... and then finding out how... you can have an amazing marriage in the future.

Women of the world... Listen up!

In Chapter 14 of The 3 Lost Keys... to Your Amazing Dream Marriage, you will find the key to soon realizing your very own dream marriage. Wives have a crucial role... it has to do with the way we naturally are. And its amazing! Laid out in simple terms, you can learn what role you can play in obtaining your very own amazing, dream marriage.

Marriage Covenant vs Contract: What's the Difference?

Contract: an agreement between two or more parties for the doing or not doing of something specified. 

Covenant: an agreement, usually formal, between two or more persons to do or not to do something specified.

A covenant and a contract sound extremely similar in their definition according to Dictionary.com. BUT THEY HAVE ONE GIGANTIC DIFFERENCE!! A contract, as we all know can be broken. A covenant carries a more formal tone; as is expected since its origins are traced back to the Bible. Although one can have a covenant with their neighbor, landlord or business partner, here at Dream Marriages, we are interested in one covenant and one covenant alone...

The Marriage Covenant

"A covenant in simple terms is a contract that does not cease, it does not end..." an excerpt from The 3 Lost Keys to Your Amazing Dream Marriage

NOTE: Re-read this again, but this time OUT LOUD (if you
are in a place where you won't look crazy!)

This is critical information for those who are not yet married. Although this revolutionary new book is jammed packed with must-read content, this single sentence above (of which, the rest is in the book) is one every single engaged couple needs to thoughtfully consider before taking those all important wedding vows.

Those vows are in essence a spoken, mutually agreed-upon, marriage covenant. And its a beautiful thing to: 

'...actually believe in our hearts, that when we speak the words, "to death do us part," we truly mean to commit for life to our spouse." Chapter 16, "The 3 Lost Keys"

The understanding of what a marriage covenant is, and more importantly what it is not, is thoroughly explained in detail in Chapter 16 of 'The 3 Lost Keys to Your Amazing Dream Marriage.' 

Purchase it TODAY and get an extra copy just in time for all those SUMMER WEDDINGS!! The bride and groom will thank you 80 years later when they are happier than the day they first said 'I DO.'

Fruit and Marriage: The Amazing Process

The way an apple tree bears fruit is essential to beginning to understand the very basic, yet mind-blowing and revolutionary concept, critical in obtaining your very own, amazing dream marriage. Now, some of you may be asking, what does fruit have to do with my marriage? Let me explain...

Have you ever seen an apple tree in the fall? 

It's full of luscious apples just ready to be picked for apple cider, apple pie or applesauce. How about in the winter? The apples are long gone. Their goodness was enjoyed by everyone who picked them. Then another year passes and soon it's fall again. The apple tree is in full bloom. Imagine your marriage now. See how its like an apple tree yet?


Maybe not. But give me a moment to explain. Think back to when you and your spouse had your last argument. You both thought you were right. You both knew the other was wrong. Do you remember who gave in... if anyone? More than likely, one of you conceded a bit. You acknowledged the truth in what your partner was saying. 

Picture that apple tree again, but this time... in the winter. 

It no longer has any apples. It 'gave' its fruit to others. It died to itself, in a sense. Now, in the example above, the person who first gave in to the other, is like the apple tree. They died to themselves in the situation; in conceding to their spouse. To concede (give of ourselves, be selfless) its  like taking an 'apple' from us. The receiving partner is given life; a refreshing and sustaining apple, if you will. 

Oh, but this isn't the end. Oh no. What happened the next fall? Did giving all of its apples mean the tree completely died in the winter? This is the important part.

To learn what happens to the apple tree, and more importantly your marriage, you'll find the answer (and so much MORE) in Chapter 9 of The 3 Lost Keys to Your Amazing Dream Marriage.  

Over and over, season after season, the apple tree is teaching us an important lesson in none other than the sacred bond of marriage. For the low price of $9.99, find out today what the lost keys are to your very own amazing dream marriage!!